Spanking yourself

2 years – thanks everyone!

It’s been two years since I’ve registered this blog (again).

I’d like to say thanks to my students and followers.

My most loyal student, Joel, already got a really nice task (writing 700 lines).

This will be good for his discipline.

As everyone knows, I lack right now the time to develop this blog and take it to the next step. I hope it’ll be better in the future.

Meanwhile, if you have any ideas, please do tell them. I’m often thinking about a spanking program.

88 thoughts on “2 years – thanks everyone!

  1. Hi Mistress Jessica

    Congratulations on two year’s 😊.

    Also as you know I think my idea of a template punishment program would work great! plus me reporting my monthly wrong doings and for you to adjust that as you feel fit would help you in this matter heaps!.

    My 700 Lines are done! And I shall send a photo of them too you soon! After I send this post.

    I am also about to do the 120 swat spanking shortly! And will send all photos’s off to you at the same time.
    I am also still doing my every day 85 swats.

    My Mistress Melissa is also still away! And will not be back to thrash my behind, until about the middle of next month.

    Your loyal student Joel

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  2. Hi Mistress Jessica

    Just to let you know that in your mail you shall have my full May 2018 Punishment Report!😕 of all the good😊 and bad😕 things I did in May 2018.

    You will now have a list of 5 naughty thing’s! I am in real need of many punishment’s of this month😕.

    Think it set’s a good idea of how to get more punishment and accountability happening for my naughtiness at time’s? and also let’s you also know also of what I am doing well in! As well as what im improving in! So great for both side’s of the coin I think😊.

    Your loyal student Joel

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  3. I am a 18 year old male. I have never been spanked before. I do have some things on my mind for that is holding me back. And it shows. I have been acting as a child, backed talked people, skipping excising days, I almost fail school because i was lazy. I have also cussed and lied. What do you think that I need?

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  4. Hi Mistress Jessica

    I am letting you know Mistress Melissa is back today! and I have organised another good long hard spanking session with her this Saturday, at 3pm on the 30th of June 2018.
    After the punishment, I shall get Mistress Melissa to take photos of my red bottom! And then I shall send them to you on the 30th June 2018.

    I feel a long overdue red bottom on it’s way!!! As with Mistress Melissa being away and with you Mistress Jessica unable to punish me as often as you would like! I feel I shall be in serious need of real punishment from you both in the next week or so.

    I sent you a report for May and will send you one for June in the next week for your correction on my attitude.

    In the mean time I do give myself a daily bear bottom self Spanking of 85 swats!! With Brush, Paddle, Spoon, Spatula or Slipper, every day to keep my self as well disciplined as possible.

    Your Loyal Student

    Joel

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    • Joel,

      I’m happy to read that. I’ve been slacking with your discipline lately.

      This weekend, it’s over. I want you to do at least 200 swats on Saturday and Sunday!

      And where’s the report?

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      • Hi Mistress Jessica

        I am doing a special punishment tommorow Sunday 8th July 2018.
        As part of the punishment so that I do not lose focus I shall send you both my July behavior report!! And also my full 5 and a bit month punishment report☝.

        I shall also mention the special punishment that for tommorow in the Report.

        My punishment for tommorow will include a mouth soaping at 6am and a second mouth soaping at 6pm.
        During the day from 7am to 5pm I Shall give my bear bottom a good hard spanking of 150 swats every hour with a painful brush! Paddle, spoon or Spatula. On the hour of 7am, 8am,9am,10am,11am,12pm,1pm,2pm,3pm,4pm,5pm.

        I shall also do 100 lines! I must make sure I get my reports done on time.

        Your loyal student Joel

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  5. Hi Mistress Jessica

    I have sent you the photo’s and details of my two day punishment spanking that you assigned me to do on Saturday 30th June and Sunday 1st June 2018.

    Hope my sore red bottom photos are ok Mistress Jessica. I used a leather paddle and wood hair brush for both days punishments! as well as following through with my normal day’s maintenance spanking of 85 swats after the punishment spanking’s.

    So including the 85 swats I gave my bottom 285 swats on Saturday 30th June 2018 and 285 swats on Sunday 1st July 2018.

    Will now send you both reports shortly tonight.

    Your Loyal Student Joel.

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  6. Hi Mistress Jessica

    I shall send you reports shortly😊.

    Meanwhile Mistress Jessica ! I just sent you an alternative maintenance daily punishment that I have been doing for the last few week’s whilst I was unable to spank myself in your mail!!.

    Please let me know what you think!!.

    Your Loyal Student

    Joel

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  7. Hi Mistress Jessica

    I have completed the punishment today 11th September 2018 between 4pm and 11pm as I did extra punishment for you.
    I came home and 1st pulled my pant’s down and spanked my bear bottom with the wood hair brush 500 leaving my bear bottom extremely red! I have also shaved it from the night from before so it hurt a lot more.
    After this I then oiled it! Then put on a tight pair of stretch jeans which make it hurt and sting so much more.
    After that I then sat on a very uncomfortable metal stool and at the table wrote my 500 lines for you Mistress Jessica I –
    ….I must not be (rude)or disrespectful “at all time’s.
    After I had completed both the spanking punishment and lines punishment and taken photos. I then took a shower and scrubbed my mouth out well with a bar of soap! As the final part of the punishment.

    I am now due to see my other Mistress!Mistress Melissa for Discipline punishment correction on the weekend.

    Your loyal student

    Joel

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  8. Hi Mistress Jessica

    Had my backside well and truly roasted by Mistress Melissa today! Tuesday 18th September 2018 at 10am. 1,700 swats first across the the bed for 600 with the leather belt! Then the next 1,100 swats was across her knee with my leather paddles including two new ones I have that really sting.

    My bottom has been sore and tender since! Mistress Melissa really thrashed my bottom hard and long.

    I feel well punished and learned my lesson.

    I shall now do your 4 day punishment that I missed over the next 4 days from Wednesday to Saturday of 80 swats a day and 1 hour in the corner.

    I shall now send you the photos of my well spanked bottom from my mistress Melissa.

    Your loyal student Joel

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      • Thank you Mistress Jessica

        Hope everything is going OK with you of late! I must admit I have been missing your fantastic discipline advice of late even though as you know Mistress Melissa keeps me in line with a very sore red bottom.

        I had a good spanking from her on the Monday and another good spanking from her on the Wednesday last week.By the end of Wednesday’s hard long spanking! I must admit! Sitting down really did sting!. My bottom was very red and sore! As you know from my photos.

        Your loyal Student Joel

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  9. Hi Mistress Jessica

    Just to let you know had my latest visit too Mistress Melissa today which I had her send you the latest photos of my well spanked bear bottom.

    Another 2000 spanks with the leather belt and leather paddles over the bed and over her knee! And also as you can then see taken by the ear and put in the corner naked with my very very sore red bottom in the corner of the bath room.

    I Was then left to think everything over like a naughty boy.

    I deserve and respect all the discipline and punishment that you two Mistresses give me! And I do appreciate my discipline.

    Your loyal student

    Joel

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  10. Hi Mistress Jessica

    I try every day to make every day a little bit better in every way😊! Some day’s are better than other’s.

    Some days as you know I really do deserve a red bottom from sometimes a trip to Mistress Melissa for that 1000 or 2000 swats on a month basis or your email to thrash my bottom off! Just as good.

    Also as you know! I do also find doing lines also helps keeps me good and punishes me when I need to keep a firm reminder to stay responsible.

    By the way my next thrashing from mistress Melissa! will be in a weeks time on a Sunday. That will be another very sore bottom.

    Your loyal student

    Joel

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    • Hi Mistress Jessica

      throughout this month you shall see a number of photos and information on your Email I have sent you on my every day maintenance self spankings of my daily 85 swats.

      I have also as you will see from my photos! sent you my very latest and new spanking items! including three new leather paddles! One that has studs on it! and also a new riding crop and leather Tawse.

      They all sting lots! And next Tuesday the 30th October 2018! Mistress Melissa shall get to try them all out on my bear bottom.

      Hope you like my latest photos! Of my punishments and discipline.

      your Loyal Student

      Joel

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      • Hi mistress Jessica, I’m Kenny and I’m 26 years old and I would like classes like Joel has and I need a really red and sore bare bottom spanking
        I’ve done way to many things bad lately.
        Please reply
        Thanks

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  11. Hi Mistress Jessica

    I’m Vivian. I’m 17 years old. And I would like to receive classes (like your loyal student Joel) from you. I have done So many bad things.

    Please Reply🙏🙏🙏🙏

    Thank You🙂

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    • Hi Vivian

      Your message just got through must have been forgotten.

      Mistress Jessica is often way too busy to commentet on this page at this time.

      If you need discipline I am a very good source that can help. I have been self punishing myself since I was 18 in 1998 and have seen a professional disciplinarians since I was 22 in 2002!! I am now 39 and still doing this as it works.

      Mistress Jessica has also been a fantastic help to my self discipline as well and discipline is what we all need.

      Miss Jessica has given me the task of standing in the corner for 1 hour today! And I do a maintenance self spanking for her every day of 85 swats across my bear bottom and send the photos to selfspankings@gmail.com

      If you want to start to teach your self to have more respect, Manners, better control and discipline then please do the following….

      Pull your pants down and ever bend over a chair or desk or bed!! Alternately lay over a chair or the bed as if you was about to go over some one’s knee and give your self a daily 85 swat maintenance spanking with a wood or leather object on your bear bottom.
      Every now and then take a photo and send to Mistress Jessica your sore red bottom.

      Next if you are someone who uses way too many cuss words and bad language! Start washing your mouth out with soap for 5 minutes every time you do this.
      Lastly if you have been very naughty write lines of 300 lines ( I must be good! Or mistress Jessica shall punish me).

      Please let me know if this information is good for you.

      As Someone who believes in self discipline and consequence if I don’t!! I also like to help people help themselves to improve.

      Kind Regards

      Joel

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  12. Hi Mistress Jessica

    My next good spanking from Mistress Melissa is due this Tuesday 27th November 2018.

    After my punishment of course! I shall send you the photos of my punishment.

    Regards

    Your loyal Student Joel

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  13. HAD AN IDEA FOR YOUR FUTURE SPANKING PROGRAM.

    Hi mistress Jessica

    Please read my idea for a spanking Program.

    I had this idea as you have a lot of people on this site that need punishments assigned each week for their naughty deeds! As you have done Post’s in the past on here! Why not about every week instead of dealing with everyone individually! Put up a post weekly on all your naughty followers to do a weekly universal punishment from you by a weekly post.

    By doing this it would mean that everyone that comes to this site! who has obviously done something naughty that week! All of us Universally would see the punishment post and do that weeks punishment.
    Then as extra proof we have done that punishment like I do! We can take photos and send to you with a message!.

    This could also be looked at as a group punishment! As well as an individual punishment! As we are all being assigned to the same punishment.

    Your loyal student Joel

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  14. Hi Mistress Jessica

    How are you hope you had a fantastic Christmas.
    I have finally managed to get time to sit down and do my 400 lines for you today Saturday 29th December2018 and sent you a photo.

    My farther has not been well so have spent a lot of time over his place looking after him so I have not found time this month to have myself Punished or disciplined as well as I should have.
    I did however keep up with my daily self maintenance spankings of 85 swats a day on my bear bottom.

    As extra punishment to make up for this as well as getting my 400 line’s done today! I am sitting on a very sore bruised bottom today!As yesterday Friday 28th December 2018 I pulled down my pants and put my self over the over knee chair and gave my self a bear bottom spanking to remember with wood spatula, wood bath brush, leather belt, and my leather paddles.

    I spanked my bear bottom for an entire hour and my bear bottom is still extremely sore now.

    Even so with a sore bruised bottom!I still gave my bear bottom a self maintenance spanking today of 85 swats.
    My bottom was very sore sitting down writing my lines today.

    Your loyal student Joel

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  15. Hello. I am wondering if Miss Jessica is taking on any students at this time? I am very much wanting firm discipline and punishment to keep me behaving like a proper young man should. Please let me know.

    – Jamie

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  16. Hi Mistress Jessica! I’m new to your blog and and I really love what you do here. Are you still active?

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  17. Hi Mistress Jessica ,

    (I typed this a day or two ago, but I can’t remember if I actually sent it in or not, so sorry if you’re seeing this again!)

    I’m new to your blog and I really like what you do here! My parents spanked me ever since I was a kid and I’ve been practicing self-imposed corporal punishment since I was fourteen. In theory I do a pretty thorough job–I keep track of my misdemeanors and assign punishments for them (bare bottom spankings aside I also do corner times and mouth soapings) but in practice sometimes I chicken out or take the easy way out. I could use some discipline, but it’s hard to do it myself.

    Are you still active here?

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  18. Hi All

    As Miss Jessica is very caught up with everything at this time I am one of her most dedicated students.
    I have at times tutored and helped people with their punishments when mistress Jessica can not discipline you at this time.
    Mistress Jessica has also been my online disciplinarian since September 2016 and has helped me a lot if you read the Posts.
    On top of that I see a disciplinarian on a regular basis to spank me good on top of my punishments.

    Please if you need help with staying on track whilst Mistress Jessica can not get round to you at this time please send me a message on here and I promise I check this site daily and will get back to you in helping you.

    Be warned I don’t hold back on my own punishment!! And I have lots of ways to punish yourself that will make you never do what you did wrong again.

    Your helper and mentor in Miss Jessica’s absence.

    Joel

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      • Hi Miss Jessica

        I did both my daily maintenance spanking yesterday and one hour corner time on Saturday the 24th March 2019.

        I took photos and sent them to your email address.

        Your Loyal Student

        Joel

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      • Hi Mistress Jessica

        Just letting you know that I am seeing Mistress Melissa tomorrow for another long hard stinging spanking.

        I shall get Mistress Melissa to take photos of my sore spanked bottom after the punishment! And send you the photos.

        Yours loyal student

        Joel

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      • Hi Mistress Jessica

        I just wanted to let you know I sent you two photos that Mistress Melissa took of my very sore red bottom after my latest session with her on Wednesday afternoon the 16th April 2019.
        She made me go across the bed and she spanked and strapped my bear bottom with leather paddles and straps good.
        In all she gave me 2,200 spanks leaving me with a very sore red bottom which two days later I still have when I sit down.
        I learned my lesson and I am still even with a sore bottom !!Giving myself my daily 85 swat maintenance spanking.

        Your loyal student

        Joel

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  19. Mistress Jessica, I have been on your blog in the past and have posted about spankings and mouth soapings. Are you still active?

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  20. Hi Harvey this is Joel

    Miss Jessica has been flat out and is still active but she only gets back to you about every five weeks.

    Miss Jessica liked me to do some mentoring and tutoring on punishment if you would like me to help. I too need regular discipline and I also see a mistress for punishment too when I am not self punishing myself.

    Please if I can help let me know I am also into line’s mouth soaping corner time and hard spankings.

    Kind Regards

    Joel

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  21. Hi Joel im wondering if you still are able to give out punishments and if so Im in dire need of a good spanking.

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    • Hi James

      Since I just got this comment in time for Christmas and atonement.

      Something that I truly do as maintenance every Sunday is to go buy some thin stinging canes and wet them over night! On Sundays pull your breaches and underpants down and with your right hand holding the can lift it high and give your right cheek 6 hard strokes of the Cane. Then do the same with the left hand over your left cheek.
      Also give yourself every Sunday 1 hour time out after the caning. Do this every Sunday without fail for the next 12 months.
      This shall seriously improve your behavior.
      If you find 6 of the best is not improving your behavior then increase up to 12 strokes or even 20 strokes depending on how bad your attitude and behaviour have become.

      On top of that I recommend that you book in to see a professional Mistress or disciplinarian at least once a month to give you a no nonsense dose of hard spanking, strapping and caning. One session with a professional disciplinarian shall improve your insight and discipline out of sight.
      Also if you tend to make excuses, lie or swear a lot! Then it is time you started washing out you mouth with soap, Tabasco sauce and writing 500 Lines each time.
      To make these punishments effective you must start documenting all your punishments, time and for the wrong doing you have been punished for.

      Hope this helps you James on your discipline.

      Kind Regards

      Joel

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  22. Mistress Jessica

    I know you have been very busy of late.

    I just got all these messages come through on my phone! So good to know your well.

    My discipline has been up and down for the last two months as Mistress Melissa is away until early Febaury.

    I have however achieved a lot with my work and community and believe that that is because regardless! I give myself 6 hard strokes of the Caine every Sunday as my Maintenance spanking.

    It not entirely true that you are still not disciplining me! As you have installed in me the on going discipline to correct myself with maintenance discipline every Sunday in which I am just as thankful from you Mistress Jessica as my other disciplinarian Mistress Melissa.

    Please Mistress Jessica could you however order me to do some new punishments as my house work has been extremely slack this last month! For that I need more discipline and more punishment.

    Your loyal student

    Joel

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  23. Mistress Jessica,

    I am brand new here but I have enjoyed reading your blog for years. I wasn’t spanked frowning up but I am an avid self spanker. Bad behavior should always be corrected. I definitely think I’m in a place to need big correction. My wife is in the navy you see and there is much in her plate. To help reduce her stress I don’t tell her about a lot of stuff so she doesn’t have extra to think about but this is not a healthy practice for the relationship. While it hasn’t had any bad effects yet it certainly can. The worst part is that my wife has trust issues stemming from her parents messy divorce. I’m only trying to help her. Good intentions. This really needs to be corrected very severely. Can you help me out?

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  24. Hi Joel and Mistress Jessica, I have been slacking off in school and this is a very important semester for me and I procrastinate and lie very often. Can any of you give me a punishment?

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    • Hi Malcolm

      First of all try progressing by doing a weekly daily plan on how you mean to motivate and organise your day appropriately.

      At the end of each day review your plan!. Make sure you are 100% honest with your self!! If you followed everything all good! But if there are any things in you daily plan you did not follow then stand up drop your pants and with a wooden spoon, spatula, slipper or leather belt give yourself 100 swats for each thing you did not follow.

      After one week you shall have made big steps to getting your discipline back! If not you will start getting use to sitting on a very sore bottom until you do improve your goals and discipline.

      Mistress Jessica will also no doubt have punishment plans for you as well.

      I hope I have been helpful to you.

      Kind Regards

      Joel

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  25. Hi Miss Jessica

    Just thought I would let you know after a few months of Mistress Melissa being away she will be back in a weeks time and have a few stinging appointments set with Mistress Melissa for next month.

    Your loyal student

    Joel

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    • Joel,

      Good to read from you. I’m still here, but I wasn’t able to follow up recently … at least Melissa does a good job.

      Tomorrow, you shall stand in a corner for 30 minutes, thinking about how your lack of self discipline can be improved in 2020.

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      • Thank you Miss Jessica I shall.
        I also just wanted to let you know that I am still giving myself a god self spanking with the cane every Sunday with you in mind.

        Your Loyal Student Joel

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  26. Hi Miss Jessica

    I shall do! Have also sent you an email. I managed to get an early appointment with my mistress Melissa on Saturday at noon.

    I shall be given a very sore bottom Saturday which I shall get Mistress Melissa to take photos for you! And I shall also take photos of my self caning on Sunday.

    Your loyal student

    Joel

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  27. Hi Miss Jessica

    Please see photo of my Sunday caning I give myself every Sunday of 6 strokes hard with the cane across my bear bottom.
    3 stripes on each cheek.

    Your loyal student Joel

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  28. Is mistress Jessica still active here I need discipline for cheating on about seven less important tests even though I would never cheat on important exams

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      • Hello

        My name is Joel and I can tutor you and no doubt Mistress Jessica shall also discipline you for you bad behaviour.

        First of all like I did you need to get a food plan and exercise plan together in order to lose weight.

        Try a healthy low carb diet with only around 20 or 30 carb max every day. Cut out all junk food and eat lots of healthy greens and veg.

        To keep yourself to account make sure you are 100% honest with yourself in what you eat and what you drink.

        Cut out all sugar drinks and start drinking a lot of herbal tea and especially Green tea. Japanese Macha tea is the best green tea and it is very strong. All health shops and tea houses have it.

        Also if you have a hard time drinking water add lemon to the water! Lemon is good for you and has basically no carbs.

        Make sure you take up an activity that gets you motivated and enjoy doing as that will keep you on track with burning unwanted weight.

        As far as keeping yourself accountable right a report to yourself and post it in the posts which talk about keeping yourself accountable.

        Mistress Jessica and I call it the accountability report.
        Start sending one to Mistress Jessica every month with what you did right! And what you did wrong and she will praise or punish you accordingly.

        Also do what I do which Mistress Jessica has me do every Sunday and that is to make a time and place to pull your pants down and give yourself a good hard long bare bottom maintenance spanking every Sunday regardless of your behaviour during the week!.

        This will help you stay on track with a sore bottom to remind you.

        As for shouting at your grandmother that is very bad. You need to pull your pants down right now take the hair brush and give yourself 50 swats and then give yourself 50 swats with your slipper. Then pull your pants back up sit on your sore bottom and right 250 lines saying ( I must respect my grandparents.

        Then you need to make a schedule for your project work and ground yourself from TV for 1 week! Or as long as it takes to get your assignments etc up to date.

        I am sure Mistress Jessica shall get back to you soon to punish and correct you further.

        I hope my advice and punishment will help you for now.

        Please let Mistress Jessica and myself know how you went and start holding yourself to accountable.

        Joel

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  29. Joel or if available Mistress,
    I need another punishment I talked loudly to my grandmother.
    I have done it too many times before.
    What I need is discipline.
    If I deserve a spanking I only have a hair brush and a slipper and a comb as implements.

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  30. Mistress Jessica or Joel,
    I am a chubby girl who lacks motivation to loose weight. I also need punishment for many other things.
    . I need a punishment for cheating in seven unimportant tests for lying and for raising my voice to my grandmother. I have also procrastinated my homework for about a month.
    I only have rubber slippers, wooden hairbrush and a plastic ruler as implements.
    Are you still active.
    Yours sincerely,
    DISCIPLINE

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  31. Hi,
    Joel I Cursed at my younger sister .
    I did all the punishments.
    I did my assignments .
    I am very lazy and do not exercise .
    Punish me.

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  32. Hello again😡.

    Though I am not Mistress Jessica I am only her loyal student! I will only advise you to do the following self punishments whislt Mistress Jessica is not online.

    Punishment exercise for not doing it!! Do 100 star jumps🤸 everyday and then give your bare bottom 100 swats with slipper🥿 everyday for two weeks.

    Also make sure you keep up with your every Sunday maintenance self spanking as well.

    Wash your mouth out with soap for yelling at your sister along with 15 hard slaps across your face. Also do 150 lines – I must not tell at my sister.

    Take photos and send to miss Jessica at selfspankings@gmail.com !After that Miss Jessica shall punish you further. Miss Jessica will take care of you from there.

    Best of luck keeping out of trouble.

    Joel

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    • hello there, I am currently a Lcpl of the US Marine crops. As a kid I haven’t been spanked nor punished that much. So my spanking experience is all self spankings. I’ve self spanked for reasons like backtalk, being rude, being late to appointed places and so on. However I do feel guilty about being rude, yelling at friends, I even at one point ran a stop sign a few months ago and almost hit someone.

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  33. Um hi Joel,
    I think I did something wrong. We have online tests now days and I may have cheated on umm…99% of them. They were not important really they were just for teachers to check how much we’ve studied. But as they are not all that important I am not feeling guilty and I don’t think that I should be spanked but I decided I should mention it just incase I do deserve punishment…
    Oh! I forgot to mention that I am more than willing to cheat again if given the chance…. I also have been lagging behind in my homework and I don’t exercise I lack the motivation and I am sure that my clothes are definitely tighter around my tummy than before .For not exercising my friends think that I need some humiliating punishment like perhaps wearing a t shirt which is very tight around my tummy.
    Well that being said I punished myself as you said above Joel.
    Pls answer quickly.
    Regards,
    DISCIPLINE

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    • Hmmmm sounds like you need to take your friends up on the T – Shirt punishment. That’s not a bad idea.

      Now for cheating I would do the following as it not just the cheating it’s the bad habits that you are finding yourself doing.

      For every test you have cheated of late give yourself ten slaps across your hand with a wood ruler.

      Then for every test paper you have cheated write 100 lines saying – ( Cheating is a bad habit and achieves nothing). Also for doing the exercises your suppose to do! I want you to wear jeans👖 that are a size smaller! This will be very uncomfortable and will keep a reminder of why you need to exercise.

      When those👖 jeans become more comfortable to wear you know your losing weight by doing the right thing🙂.

      Look at it as both positive motivation and punishment at the same time😔👍.

      Lastly this Sunday I think you should give yourself a bare bottom spanking with your hair brush and say out loud after each spank! I must change my ways.

      Hope that advice will help you achieve your goals and teach you to get on track🙂.

      Joel

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  34. Hi Joel,
    I have mid term exams in the 24th of August and today being the 20th I haven’t studied well at all and I think I need a sound embarassing spanking to gine me enough motivation..
    I tried the t shirt and jeans idea it didn’t work. I just sucked my tummy in.
    Before sucking in my t shirt should my 2 big fat rolls. Hell I couldn’t even bend double due to the t shirt hugging my tummy. I think I need a spanking to keep me motivated.
    I have been a very naughty girl this week who deserves he naughty bare bottom spanked.
    First of all I Cursed at my parents behind their backs of course. Secondly I have been very lazy not studying for exams and not exercising as much as necessary.
    Thirdly I didn’t pay attention in class
    Fourthly I might have ummmm…… cursed at this um.. mistress Jessica. I am sorry Joel.I know what I deserve but I figure that it would be better if you punished me for being the naughty girl I have been this week.
    Oh and finally I acted like a brat and oh also cheated on tests again.
    Regards,
    I’ll comment soon with my well punished bottom .
    DISCIPLINE

    P.S. I need to know how to spank such that the sting lasts for at least a day as mine lasts only an hour at the most. Anwer soon……

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    • Hello once again.

      I still see your not motivated enough! Yes you need a sore bottom that will last for days.

      One thing I have done is do what I call a relay spanking. Use a wooden spoon or wooden spatula for your spanking. I want you to give yourself a 1000 slap spanking. To increase long spanking soreness you need to be able to spank until it really hurts so much to sit down.

      My advice is once every hour for ten hours pull down your pants stand still and using very hard spanks spank your bare bottom 100 times with the wood spatula or wooden spoon.

      At the end of the 10 hours you will have spanked your bottom 1000 times and every hour you spank your bottom you will find it becoming more and more sore as you freshly spank an already sore bottom.
      If you do it properly you shall find it still increadably sore when you go to sit down four to six days later.

      Let me know how you go and take a photo and send to Mistress Jessica your very very sore bottom.

      Once you have done that you shall have proven your punishment.

      After the ten hours you should then stand in the corner for 30 minutes👍.

      I’m sore Mistress Jessica shall also punish you further.

      Your spanking mentor Joel.

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  35. Hi naughty girl! If you can find a wooden spoon or anything wood that will have the same result😢.
    When you have done the punishment please let Mistress Jessica and I know.

    Your spanking mentor Joel

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  36. Hi Joel,
    I have tried the 100 spanks per hour but I chicken out after 20 swats .
    I know a deserve a spanking on my naughty bare bottom but I can’t seem to hit hard enough and achieve the desired number of spanks. Pls give me some advice .

    Your naughty spanking deserving mentee,
    DISCIPLINE

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    • Oh I was wanting to ask this for a long time. When Miss Jessica comes back on this page will she punish me and my naughty bare bottom as well?????

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  37. Miss Jessica well and truly will punish you!.

    With the swats if your having a hard time giving you bear bottom 100 swats per hour then just give yourself 20 hard swats pull your pants up and again in half an hour repeat the procedure and keep doing that during the day. If you do that you will have a very sore bottom at the end of the day.
    I know I have done the same in the past.

    Please try and follow through it hurts but it is suppose to hurt and remind you every time you sit down. It’s called having your attitude adjusted to help you achieve you goals and stop you from being so naughty.

    Hope that helps! Your mentor friend😊.

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  38. Hey Joel,
    I followed the punishments you gave me.
    It was very painful and by the end of the day I was feeling like a naughty little girl who deserved what she got. I couldn’t sit for days due to my bottom. I felt somewhat sorry something which I hardly ever felt since my parents do not spank me. It was due to this punishment that I was acting decent for ummm… a week but alas!it was too good to last I have misbehaved once again I believe may need another sore bottom.
    I firstly talked back to my parents alot. this week my attitude which was corrected from the spanking has changed for the worse.
    Secondly, I am once again lagging behind in my homework.

    Awaiting my punishment
    Yours sincerely,
    DISCIPLINE

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    • Hey ,
      Forgot to mention that I also have not been exercising at all. previously I exercised at least a bit but now I am not even doing that. I feel that I need something to get me on track….

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  39. Hey,
    Thought that you might want to know that I have been throwing temper tantrums lately. I await my doom.

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  40. Hello

    First of all sorry I have not got back to you on your replies.
    First of all from now until the end of the year every Sunday I think you should all day long on the hour with a wooden spoon or hair brush give yourself 50 swats across the bear bottom every Sunday from 9am to 9pm 50 swats every hour. By the end of the Sunday your bottom will be very red and very sore and should be sore for most of the week.
    This will make you think about your behaviour everytime you sit down.
    Also everytime you find yourself throwing a tantrum I think you should wash you mouth out with Tabasco sauce and soap.
    After you have done that even if you have an already sore bottom I would give yourself another 30 swat spanking on your bear bottom with your own ✋.

    I hope this helps! I’m glad you found the last spanking helped you a lot! The emotions you felt is exactly what you need.

    Your assistance Tutor mentor

    Joel

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    • PS that is bare not bear 🐻 bottom. Got to keep an eye on auto spell check.

      Please follow through with your punishments.

      Hopefully Mistress Jessica will discipline you soon as well.

      Your Tutor & Mentor

      Joel

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      • Hello Joel,

        I really am not here to get a punishment this time.
        This time I just need to tell you that I was at my aunt’s house , a really distinct aunt,alone. I was acting like a to total brat and talked back to her alot and broke rules you know not doing homework and not going to bed on time.
        My aunt threated that she would punish me like the naughty girl I had been acting like but I didn’t take her seriously one day she thought that she had had enough and then she took me to her room and lectured me about my behaviour before declaring that I needed a spanking. I was so shocked that I didn’t even protest. She then proceeded to pull me over her lap , bared my bottom and asked me embarassing questions like why was I getting a spanking and on which part she would be spanking me.
        She first spanked me with her hand till I was crying and then sent me to my room naked waist down to get my hairbrush she spanked me for a whole 30 minutes. After that I had corner time for 5 minutes with my bare bottom on display.
        After that she comforted me and told me that I was forgiven and that she won’t tell my parents.
        That was a few days ago and my first spanking given to me by an adult then felt ashamed of my behavior.

        I am not at my aunt’s now.
        I just wanted to ask you whether my punishment was justified, a bit harsh or a bit less than what I deserved.

        DISCIPLINE

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  41. Joel,

    I just wanted to ask if carelessness which could have been dangerous deserves a spanking
    My parents trusted me and left me and my younger sister at home alone and told me not to let anyone in. But I let them down and let a man who came for repair in. I knew the man not well but I knew him. I called my father and told him that I let that man him.
    When my father came by the time the man had left he was very disappointed in me but didn’t punish me.

    I leave the descision up to you Joel but keep in mind that I regret my carelessness.

    Yours sincerely,
    DISCIPLINE

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  42. Is there any punishment for making excuses for my bad or more accurately abysmal behavior?? If so please assign me one. And then n top of that I have been cheating on tests again and even not studying for my upcoming exams.
    I need a spanking till then I have punished myself slightly by giving myself a bare bottom time out near the window so everyone can see that I have been a bad girl, thinking about you soon my bottom will be blistering and red and the cold wind coming from the window
    And touching my bare bottom does nothing to comfort me.

    Your naughty mentee,
    DISCIPLINE

    P.S. I have been doing alot of sass and ball taking recently

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  43. First off I am sirry that I have acting so naughty in the past few weeks….
    Then secondly I pretend to have network glitches during my online classes so that I don’t have to answer questions in class and I also have been disrespectful to my grandmother. I gave myself a few swats with the hairbrush on my clothed bottom as soon as I act naughty and then bare it and give myself corner time bare bottomed but I don’t know exactly how many swats I should give myself and how long should I have corner time for and whatever I do to punish myself doesn’t work but I punish myself minimally. My waisband has also been feeling tighter…

    DISCIPLINE

    P.S. Answe back quickly

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    • Hey Joel,
      I was wondering whether I should send monthly accountability report here on this page itself so that you could punish and reward me.
      Are there any spanking punishment app that I could use?

      DISCIPLINE
      P.S. sorry for demanding that you answer back quickly in the other comment pls don’t punish me.

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  44. Thanks Mistress Jessica,
    But please punish me for the offences I have listed in my above comments

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  45. Hi,
    I just got my exam results they were pretty alright but not my best work.
    I got just a 52/60 in 2 subjects while they are not bad I could have done better( getting 55 marks or up)hadn’t I procrastinated studying so much and paid attention in class. I slacked off alot this term. I need to get better grades on my next exam and what better to remind me than a spanking that leaves me in tears.

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