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How To Stop Masturbating With Self Spanking!

Ugh, I received various comments here regarding this.

For example reader John,

I bought porn clips and watched them while i was “stoking it” .. Or, while i was “wanking” as is often said by people in England. 🙂

or reader Nader,

I wank 4 times a week. But i want self control. Please order me the wanking schedule.

 

… I consider this one  of the worst offences, which is why I usually assign the most severe punishments for wanking. If you have a problem with this as well and your masturbation habit is out of control, it is time to take action.

Confess the offence here and your self spanking assignment will come. Also, you need more discipline – self spanking is the way to go here. Go read the guide and work on this loathsome habit!

Jessica

 

If you want to integrate accountability in your life, become more goal oriented or just want to spank yourself anyway, you should consider, apart from reading the other articles here, to get the The Guide For Self Spanking. It will teach you the backgrounds of spanking, some things to consider when starting first, and various scenarios in which spanking yourself is necessary. 

Check out the guide here or click on this image, to go directly to Amazon:

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7 thoughts on “How To Stop Masturbating With Self Spanking!

  1. Dear Ms. Jessica

    I would like help with my problem of masterbating. I have had spankings for the past 2 weeks everyday. It has helped my behavior but feel my masterbating could use a serious punishment. I appreciate you helpung me oyt.

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  2. Ms Jessica
    Not a problem for me but I am behind in getting last month’s report to you.

    Sorry
    Ron

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  3. Hi Miss Jessica

    Mmmm this is going to be another big talking point……I do agree with you on a discipline level however please read below……

    Masturbation is something that so many are so ashamed of to talk about and go to! Especially men because it is a topic which is almost taboo as it involves the act of one person pleasing one’s self! or relieving oneself of their A) sexual desire! with themselves or B) their Frustrations! that are building up within their own body! which is chemically suppose to happen!! as we are naturally borne that way. Though there is a fundamental deference between perverted behaviour Masturbation! and pervert behaviour! which I agree Miss Jessica! I have read on this site cases’ of Masturbation of things such as men Masturbating! over seeing other women that is not good! Watching and wanking watching tooo much porn on DVD and the Internet!! which I blame greatly for the rise of Porn!! and unsocial bad behaviour towards sex towards ladies!.

    Someone steeling their girl friends socks! or underwear sniffing them is not only a deviant thing to do! but a total disregard of trust! honour! love! or respect for one’s partner! and the most gross thing someone can possibly can consider masturbating over! but there are those on here that have admitted to it! I do at least give them the credit that out of shame they have admitted their terrible deed to and to us all and you have punished them accordingly. I also read so much about on going Masturbation due to on going constant Porn!! it just terrible. And you know guys no real lady is going to take you on whilst they know you have this sick habit and that you look upon them as nothing more than a sex object.

    On the other hand what’s important is that relieving unwanted unhealthy levels of sperm from the body! which after some times especially from males from the ages of their teenage years! right through to about the age of 45 when the body clock starts to slow down and stop making so much sperm is a much! remembering that at times when a man is single and he does not have a sexually active partner!! unfortunately for him that sperm keeps’ building up and up every day! and you will be surprised how much that is in a young man. Believe it or not! the greatest build up of sexual tension that is natural as the male is designed this way for child bearing the same as a woman is from the ages of early 20s and even greater in a man in his early to mid 30s.

    Any young man that tells you that he does not Masturbate Mistress Jessica, and does not report to you soon on this latest blog!!!! unless he has a very sexually charged partner! from the ages of 14! to the ages of 40+ no matter who they are! is telling you a porky pie. Why!! they have no choice! as the only other is to not!! and like when they were a 13 – 14 years of age teenager! for the first time going through the first stages of hormonal changes! by the way from the ages from a pre – teen boy through teenage boy to the final changes in their late teens it takes 7 changes! before in those few short years before the boy changes completely from a pre teen boy to a man! any way they will wake up in bed and find the bed a massive mess! as they will on about on a monthly basis of not doing it! to on a 6 week every week basis! have the strangest dream!! followed by a massive sperm explosion in bed! and cleaning those sheet’s just forget it!! it is stained for ever and a throw away job! and I mean a massive mess weeks! of sperm in one hit and it a wet horrible experience!! hence the name and title (Wet Dream) not good.

    I also blame the school system! especially the system of the past for this idea that we have an all girl system! or all boy system! I also strongly do not agree with the idea that as I remember, when we went to high school and had sex education!! the girls got taken to a class by a lady teacher about their sexuality to be educated! whilst a male teacher would take the teenage boys away to be educated!!. I have found as a social and youth worker in the past that my experiences with people! this kind of education creates miss understanding! or little understanding of both sexes! and ignorance becomes a big factor! during this time! and for years’ later for both sexes years latter.
    Keeping in mind our topic of Masturbation! both sexes do Masturbate though also ladies are also not too often going to admit to it! and I can understand that as I understand for most this is an undignified and private matter! as long as it is one that one keeps to themselves to a healthy needed level!!! is there a level…….

    YES .. there is a level too much Masturbation is not good for your health and will get in the way of a productive life! and productivity. Also PORN is just the worst offender for this big problem!! the internet is so free of it. as for there was a time when Porn was something you had to go to go and get and pay for!! if that was something that you are into now you can freely down load! or watch for free from your lap top! ie Phones or Tablets for nothing! in seconds anywhere anytime anyplace.

    I recently watched a disturbing English Doc on TV just last week! on this very subject on Teenagers, and Porn! and the massive rise and intake of use that our teenagers are getting hooked on internet PORN Sex. I could not believe it when there was a young teenage boy that had watched so much sex on the internet! that he confessed he only had to see a girl walk by him in a mini skirt! and he had to go to the nearest place to masturbate or have a (WANK). He was masturbating so much a day as he was hooked on so much online porn that he was masturbating 18 times a day! which left me gob smacked to put it bluntly. Even the most sexually charged male person would have a hard time doing it 5 times a day! I don’t know about 18 times a day! even if you were doing it 18 times a month!! I would say you have a massive issue that needs serious work and self control. That boy was ashamed to admit that and he wonders why he also continued to have a very sore penis.

    In a basket! there is a time when you must relieve that sperm if you are not having sex! the correct disciplined way without being a sick perverted deviant! and gobbling PORN! is to take yourself to the shower undress with hot water and release your weeks load in there!!. That way you have done the healthy thing of realising yourself of the build up of sperm which can be as unhealthy as holding onto not going to the toilet. if you don’t get rid of it!! but you have not sexually in anyway offended the other sex with terrible sexual desire!! which even in private! if you are involved in PORN that is what you are doing!! even if a woman is not present and you must feel in your own heart is wrong which makes what you are doing low.

    Miss Jessica – you are correct in punishing all of those of any of us who in any shape or form will continue to Masturbate over PORN! and their own sexual Wim’s! as women are human beings! not Sex toys, for their own pleasure! also their habits are creating unhealthy functioning daily habits’ which are disabling them to function day by day! which in the end disables them from functioning.

    Don’t forget as well that if you are a male and you want to donate sperm! to a sperm bank! to a local sperm bank! that is a positive way that you can contribute your unwanted sperm to give life!! rather than wasting it. Now that’s something positive.

    Other Reports.

    .Just to let you know Miss Jessica Also I have sent my reports for April Accountability Report for April, Emails Reports for the boots to implements’ and tools for the boots! my monthly diet report which I shall send you another update next week to your email address! also I sent my response to the completion to my punishment work out coach idea in Fem Dom! and also sent responses to how to find a disciplinarian!. On a whole your doing a great job of us all and covering so much ground.

    Your loyal Student

    Regards

    Joel

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    • Quite the insight, thanks for posting this ! I’ll have to reread it later.
      In the most extreme cases, like this boy from the show who’d jerk off 18 times, I’d recommend checking out yourbrainonporn, a good info source.
      Have you ever donated sperm?

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  4. Hi Miss Jessica

    Please read my previous email up top! then think about this one! Had another idea that could suit this punishment down to the ground. As this is an extremely humiliating and taboo act for both men and women! as well as the assigned spanking for the degree of (WANKING) of self pleasure self lust has been given! another way of making it a real lesson and humiliation for who ever has done the deed! is to have to sit down after the spanking! and by email on this blog, email what they lusted for! why! what they did! and how offensive they have been! and how much they have let themselves down! especially when it comes down to outright dirty (PORN).
    This also creates honesty! and loyalty as well as discipline and accountability, of the actions of the deed of (Wanking) over PORN and Filthy Self Gratification. After wards’ I think they should also have to do lines! wash their mouth out with soap! and also finish up with some corner time.

    Regards

    Your Loyal Student

    Joel

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  5. Hi Miss Jessica

    Yes I donated a number of years ago! I got the idea and inspiration! when years ago a family member had married a nice lady, but unfortunately through difficult situations of nature! they could not have children naturally!. No matter how hard they tried, or what they did until they tried going through this line of way of doing things.

    Though the sperm obviously used to create life! in this instance! belongs to someone else! it can create much joy to other wise broken relationships! and a chance for a child to be born into this world that would not have been! if this was not done! and if people did not donate their sperm. Years on now from that family member and his wife now having had a healthy son from this! he is now a bright teenager doing very well at sport! Music and gets high grades at School! because he is so bright. I am sure my family members are eternally Thankful, I know I am so thankful to that donation! and I am very very sure the boy most certainly is.

    So like I say these Sperm Banks are around! and especially if you are a healthy young man with no STDs etc! or issues that need sorting out before hand! and especially if your single and sorry to put it this way! you have a big load to get clear of! give it to a sperm bank! and they will then put it in the refrigeration! that way instead of wasting it! you have just given hope to a family, and life to a little boy or girl that would have never been! if it was not for your visit and generous donation it would not have been.

    Regards

    Your Loyal Student

    Joel

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