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Confess Your Bad Behavior Now And Complete This Assignment!

Every Friday, bad boys have a chance confess their naughty misdeeds and receive bare-bottom punishment in the form of self-spanking. Before confessing what you’ve done. complete all pre-punishment tasks listed here.

Afterwards, tell me the 1 or 2 most naughty things you’ve done this week, and tell me what implements you have laid out in a prominent location in your home(as per these pre-punishment tasks)

 

If you want to integrate accountability in your life, become more goal oriented or just want to spank yourself anyway, you should consider, apart from reading the other articles here, to get the The guide for self spanking. It will teach you the backgrounds of spanking, some things to consider when starting first, and various scenarios in which spanking yourself is necessary. 

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108 thoughts on “Confess Your Bad Behavior Now And Complete This Assignment!

  1. Hello miss, I’ve been a very badly behaved girl. I have put off cutting the lawn for almost a week and I argued with my friend for no reason. I’m sorry miss. I have a thin belt, a spatula, plastic hard hair brush, riding crop, and a ruler laid out miss.

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  2. Miss I am a naughty mid 30s man! and I have been so rude of late to people. I have also used so many bad words of late it’s not funny. And although I have been getting through my work load! at home my place is like a bomb went off! because I have been so lazy the last few weeks. I think the time has come for me to be given an Attitude Adjustment.

    I have 2 leather paddles! many wooden Spoons! and some very painful wooden paddles.

    Please Miss instruct me on my punishment.

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    • Well you haven’t given me reasons for a punishment as much as for a maintenance spanking.
      Every Sunday, do the following: take either the leather paddle or a long spoon (variation is key ) and slap your bare ass 15 times.
      And of course, report back!

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  3. I was sassy to my friends, family and boss, procrastinated some projects, was late to work on Wednesday, and drank a bit too much last night

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  4. Thank You Miss Jessica I shall start this Sunday! and go from leather paddle to Spoon. and let you know how my Attitude is progressing.

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  5. Yes Miss Jessica your guidance is helping me a lot so much already this week. Your firm guidance words and those 15 hard slaps with the leather paddle across my behind today have made me motivated to get things done today and re assess things at home which was the problem.
    Also the 3 day punishment with the wooden paddle for my bad sassy mouth! has done me so much good thanks to your guidance and firm words.

    I do set high standards for my self! not only in performance! but also in correct attitude and behaviour to others which is how I was brought up. I some times let my self down! often badly! by letting those standards drop!!! and when I do I need someone to help me not forget what I did! and make me pay the consequence for it!.

    I shall give my self 15 of the spoon next Sunday! If I may Miss Jessica! sometimes as one could say prevention is better than the situation becoming a punishable issue.

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  6. Hi Miss Jessica

    Leather straps ranging from long to short. Hair brush wood one plastic very sharp loud stinging results and a sore bottom after some time spanking! spatulas plastic and wood but they have a good sting! believe it or not I have found when used properly a few fly swatters have a good sting but don’t last long! not sure if I am wasting my time or not with fly Swatters but I do find they do have a sting. I have used different kinds of rulers! a short thick Caine when I have been very bad! and of late I have found even when you get a rope and make it into six and then hit your bottom with it! with just a few of those strokes can make you stop and think twice about being naughty.

    Lastly though I have not done it often! and it is the one thing I hate! I have also used the old slipper for one special punishment! and I find it fits the crime for telling mistruths or lying to someone! as I find the slipper has a real sting! but at the same time as it comes down hard on my bottom it is very heavy! like the wait of telling a big fat lie! which reminds me of what I’m being punished for! if that makes sense! as well as the terrible sting on my bear bottom.

    I tend to keep going to the wooden spoon, leather Paddle and Wooden Paddle because I find they really make my bottom real sore for longer! apart from the Caine of course which I only look for when I have been real bad. I am always however Ms Jessica up to try other that I have not yet given a try! and I am always out to improve my self.

    P.S I have got on top of everything over the last few days! and am doing well soooo far! That being work wise, community wise, friends and family wise, and home. I have been very motivated and no bad attitude towards those around me. So a big Thank you Miss Jessica so far.

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    • It seems I missed your comment. First of all, great comment. I always like when people appreciate this blog! The wooden spoon is probably the best, if it’s long.

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  7. Hi Miss Jessica

    Thank you for that, I do appreciate this blog and your good guidance.

    I use wooden spoons that are long and have a handle! and are nice and thick up top! they last a long time and do not break for a very long time.
    They also sting and bite lots on a bear bottom! and it did on mine today for my maintenance spanking early hours this morning before breakfast! especially since my bottom is still very sore from yesterdays switching Owch…I deserve it though! and I’m being corrected.

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  8. Hi Miss Jessica

    Gave my self another 15 swats with the leather paddle again this morning! across my bear bottom for my Maintenance spanking for the 3rd Sunday in a row.

    Despite having made a few bad mistakes over that time which I have been punished for! I am finding the Maintenance spanking is helping me a lot especially in betting stuff done and helping me to be better behaved and attitude much more adjusted.

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  9. Dear Miss Jessica:

    Is it possible for a self spanking to recreate some of the excitement that I experienced from my wife? Could confession and a self spanking assignment, be the answer? I’m afraid of depression if I continue to pine over this issue. Is this something that you could help me with. I really need to resolve this. I really need a women to give me proper spanking.

    Thank you Ma’am

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  10. I’ve been a really bad girl, I didn’t try hard in school, I didn’t do my homework, please give me some punishment. I have a wooden ruler, a belt.

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  11. I’ve been getting all Fs on my tests and procrastinate on doing three assignment till the day they were due

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  12. I don’t try hard in school and I never get my work done on time. I have three fails classes and need my punishment to be severe so I will do my work and try harder

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  13. I’m sorry Ms jessica but I lied to my teacher about a presentation that couted as half my grade becuase I didn’t want to present becuase I feel ugly in front of people and I swore at her

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  14. Hi Miss Jessica

    I have just given myself the following Special Maintenance spanking for the following thing to give me the discipline and strength of leadership! that I must show and deliver whatever happens tomorrow night.

    I am in charge of a sports team, and I am also a player! in which we are in a Grand Final of tomorrow night of’ and I must be the one everyone must look up to and follow by example! Our team was not even expected to win our Semi – Final! However we have made it into the Grand Final playing the top ladder Team!.

    I Bent over the desk in the kitchen pulled down my shorts and underpants and gave my bear bottom 15 hard spanks’ with the wooden spoon and then followed it up with another 15 hard spanks with the wooden butt end of the back scratcher! 15 Spanks with the spoon to give me discipline strength, leadership, and 100 effort with my team! and 15 with the wooden back scratcher to give me sportsmanship discipline. 30 Maintenance Spanks in all.

    Whatever happens’ I expect 100 percent from myself and I will give 100 percent encouragement and support to my team! and expect them never to give up! and 100 percent effort even if we are playing the top team!! after all our team is in the Grand Final! and that is an achievement in its self.

    One thing I do expect though through all of this even though it is a Grand Final! and I expect it from my self! and my players, which is what 15 of the maintenance spanks have been for! Is to keep good sportsmanship manners, and attitude before! throughout! and after the game! this is important to me.

    Once again Miss Jessica hope you think I am on the right track with my discipline Maintenance.

    Regards
    Joel

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  15. Hi Miss Jessica

    My team lost the Grand Final in my Sports Club! I am Proud of them though all the same! and we have always next season and lots of training to do. One player did show some very bad sportsmanship which I did not put up with! and will not tolerate in my team! other than that, we gave them everything we had and did not lose by tooo much.

    I found the Maintenance Spanking I gave myself! did help me to stay focused and on track with keeping my own self discipline and focus with my team! and keeping positive feedback to my players’ and mind set before! during and after the game.

    I am always looking at staying positive now ready to put in for a big 2017.

    Regards
    Joel

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  16. Hi Miss Jessica

    Your Maintenance Spankings have helped me out a lot! and I truly mean that! not in a punishment way! in the way I use Punishment Spankings, or see my Mistress for discipline! The Maintenance Spankings help me stay focused! and keep my self well adjusted and in control of my own self attitude and leadership! which I need to show in my everyday life.

    You introduced me to the Maintenance discipline difference between the two! and I have found a large change of betterment in myself! even though I was seeing Mistresses’ and self punishing before you helped me to introduce Maintenance Spanking to my life!.

    For that Miss Jessica I can not stop but thank you all the time! for I feel the benefits of it every day, and every week! and I must thank you so much for your help! as you have indeed helped me to finally place that final missing peace of the puzzle that had been missing in my life as a self spanker all these years that I just did not get before, that I needed more than Punishment! and that was Maintenance! again from someone who takes his self discipline all the way! I really must say…..THANK YOU SOOO MUCH.

    Regards
    Joel

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  17. I’m sorry miss jessica I have been swearing a lot at school I also have been skipping class becuase I don’t care about it I have missed school 20 times becuase I faked a sic

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      • I’m sorry miss jessica I have faked being sick and still haven’t retested for the four failed competency and I’m sorry I didn’t mean to be disrespectful to you

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  18. hi miss, i am from Sri Lanka. Here sexuality is constrained by social stigmas. I have inclination for self spanking. i want to confess
    1. I insulted some of my closed friends without reason
    2. I didn’t completed my study work well.
    I have wood sticks, leather belt and a homemade dildo for my ass.

    pls mistress give me correction punishment.

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    • Well that’s a good starters package – I’ve been in your situation as well, by the way. Have you read the guide, it outlines all the basic info for beginning and aspiring self spankers.

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      • Yes mistress i have read the guide. my age is 25,male. i never exposed my sexual fantacy to anyone. I want to share my story with you so that it may help you in research if you have any plan for research. Mostly in eastern societies sexuality is a private thing. The strange thing is that i first time spanked myself when i was 16 years and i never saw porn till then. Neither i saw to anyone doing this. This shows my instinct was not shaped by nurture. Moreover, i would dream of spanked by a girl. I explored that i was a submissive in sexuality. My question is how it happened to me while i never saw anybody doing this till that age. I belong to a 3rd world eastern society. Hopefully my case will help you for ur research. I have read psycology and women studies. I also read many feminist works. M impressed by judith butler’s work on assumption of gender fluidity. Anyhow this is the right place. M really thankful to you for your bold services. pls accept me as your distant slave for self spanking. I will definitly obey you. I will always submit to your assignments and will help you for your research on eastern societies if you are interested. I live here and i request you to decode eastern sexually fanatic societies. It will be a great work. Thanks

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  19. Hi Miss Jessica

    Despite having to punish myself for a few naughty things this month! As I am today!. Thanks to the Maintenance Spanking program that you now have me following every Sunday! over the last three and a half months’ my behaviour is so much more rounded and responsible! and I think you will agree when you look back at my last few punishment reports’ I am improving! and as in past emails, I must thank you so much for that Miss Jessica.

    I am starting to think though that, if I increased my Maintenance Spanking from once on a Sunday 15 swats! to say 15 swats every day Maintenance Spanking and two trips’ to my Mistress every month, if that would really help atone and develop my behaviour to its best!!. This approach would possibly cut out most of my bad behaviour 100%.

    I am thinking of starting this program on the 1st of January 2017! Please Miss Jessica let me know your very valued thoughts and ideas on this one Miss Jessica as I know you know best.

    Regards
    Joel

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  20. Hi Ms Jessica,

    i am a naughty masturbator who masturbated and had an orgasm while watching nuwest videos for the past 3 days. i have a wire hanger, a plastic hanger and a plastic kitchen spoon for spanking. Please punish me, Ms Jessica.

    Regards,
    Daniel

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  21. Mrs.jessica
    I have lied to my mom about being sick and I called her the b word I have a brush and a belt

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  22. Yes miss sorry it took so long for me to reply i got my phone tooken away.
    I just did the swats you assigned me
    Can you please give me a punishment for not making up my tests in school I need a super harsh punishment with a belt,brush,and house slipper and I also swore at my teacher

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  23. No miss I really need a server punishment with a hairbrush and wooden spoon and switch I also believe a painful cornertime

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  24. Yes miss
    I have done the 300 swats and I can say that I’m sitting here in pain my bottom is still red and is bruised a little but I know I deserved it for how I acted and how I tretad you I’m sorry. And for disrespecting you and my mom and teachers I have was he my mouth out with soap for five minutes non-stop I’m really sorry miss I’m now going to Stand in the corner with my red bottom on display for anyone who drives by the corner is front of the window. I am also going to add 20 more swats with the belt for not replying to you and wash my mouth out again for extra punishment. I’m going to go stand in the corner for two hours and then kneel for an hour in all fours.

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      • Its still not any better I’m very sorry but I’m just not learning I have repeated the same behavior I feel really bad and need to be punished serverly. I spanked myself this morning before school with the belt and hairbrush go 30 min and I still repeated the behavior in school I made my friend cry I feel so bad please please please correct me

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  25. Mrs jessica I have been forgetting to feed the cat and I have 9 F’s in school I also have been lying and swearing at my mom and teachers
    please correct my behavior

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    • … your repeated failures are a shame. It’s time to suffer: use a long stick and execute 100 swats today and tomorrow. Next week, I want you to report every day how your behaviour was!

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  26. yes mrs jessica but I’m with my stepdad and mom they both are home this weekend and I can’t spank myself. I’m sorry but is there anything else maybe corner time or mouth soaping.

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      • Mrs Jessica I have done the corner time I dropped the coin three times do I had to spend 1 hour and half in the corner as I’m cat sitting for my neighbor I have spanked myself with the wooden spoon each time I dropped the coin 15 times one per age.

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  27. Because I was absent for a week in school I couldn’t do the homework and failed the test for algebra and biology. I told my stepdad and mom but they said I tried the best I could but really I didn’t i could have probably passed if I read it more carefully. I believe I deserve to be punished serverly for not doing my best in school let me know if you think I should be punished serverly I plan on doing 250 with the belt and 250 with the wooden spoon and keep this up for a week because I feel like a failure. I may have had and accident because I drank too much water before bed and wet the bed like a little kid I have spanked myself 100 times with the hairbrush for wetting the bed and believe I should still be punished more do you agree what else should I do?

    Sincerely
    Naughty Hanna

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  28. My behavior today has been ok I didn’t do my homework but have finished and have spanked myself with the switch 300 times

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      • Yes miss Jessica I have done the punishment and my bottom is bruised in spots and bleeding in the sit spots
        My punishment was walking in and grabbing the wooden spoon and deliving 25 on my leggings and 25 on my panties and 50 on my bare bottom. Miss Jessica I’m sorry that I’m such a bad girl I act like this because I know no one will love me my family do of course but don’t believe in spanking and no one will date or love me.

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      • Yes miss Jessica I have done the punishment and my bottom is bruised in spots and bleeding in the sit spots
        My punishment was walking in and grabbing the wooden spoon and deliving 25 on my leggings and 25 on my panties and 50 on my bare bottom.

        Miss Jessica I’m sorry that I’m such a bad girl I act like this because I know no one will love me my family do of course but don’t believe in spanking and no one will date or love me

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  29. Miss Jessica I have been rude to my teachers and told one to f-off and the other to shut up I’m very sorry plus I haven’t done my test remakes I think I need a server punishment and chores weekly but don’t know which ones so I leave it to you to chose.

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    • Ok: 100 swats (long range implement), 30 minutes corner time. Take a coin and put it on the wall, hold it with your nose. If it falls, start over – until the 30 minutes are done!!!

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  30. Yes miss Jessica I have done the corner time I have spanked myself with the wooden cane on my bare bottom

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  31. Miss Jessica I have sworn and forgot I had to babysit three kids so she had to cancel her plans

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      • Yes Mrs Jessica I’m sorry I have bed naughty again please forgive me I have spanked myself with the belt and for reminder I called and had he add another 80 with the hairbrush because she’s best friends with my mom so she’s like my godmother.

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  32. Yeah Mrs Jessica I also have been lying to my Grandma that I have all A and I’m failing all classes

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  33. Yes miss Jessica I have done spanking with wire hanger.
    I’m sorry but I procatenated to get my school work done and I have waited till the last day to get my online school set up

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  34. I also have been rude and mean to my brother I punched him in the face. I also calls him retarded

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  35. Miss Jessica I’m sorry I have been naughty again please forgive me I have been mean to my little brother and haven’t been eating well how would I go about eating healthy with spanking?

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    • …this week, I want you to spank yourself everyday with at least 100 swats! Make it sting – use your bare hand. 30 minutes o corner time every day, too, as your behaviour hasn’t shown any amelioration!

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      • Yes miss Jessica I will report back to you I have a question how should I punish my self for not taking my medicine

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  36. As I’m only 15 how can I go about getting a physical disiplinaren. I live in MI Clinton township

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  37. I want to have a disiplinaren who will spanking me herself but as I’m only 14 going to be 15 in 3 months i can’t get one that will because of age. I also can’t have my Grandma mother knowing that I’m going to be seeinf one please help

    And I also need to be punished for spending money carelessly on candy

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  38. I’ve been a really bad girl, I didn’t try hard in school, I didn’t do my homework, please give me some punishment. I have a wooden ruler,belt,wooden spoon

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  39. Yes miss Jessica I have spanked my self and it hurts so bad the corner time I did was fine in tight skinny jeans holding a coin for an hour.
    U have disrespected my mom by losing saying I was passing with good grade when I’m failing causing my mom to pull me out of public school and do online.

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  40. Yeah Mrs Jessica I punished serverly by spank in with belt super had and was crying. I need to fell how it is to be scolded and spanked by someone or even scolded over this website

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  41. Miss Jessica I have been a bad girl and deserve to be punished 4 line line lying swearing being mean to my brother and disrespecting my friends and Neighbors in family please correct my behavior I have soap about belt back scratcher and hairbrush slipper and a cord and switch please correct me thanks
    Naughty Hanna

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  42. miss Jessica I have been a naughty girl I haven’t been doing my classwork and got suspended for a week for fighting with this girl. I also was rude to my family and told my brother that he is the worst thing that happened to me.

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  43. Hi Hanna

    Your only 15! your lucky your not me at 15! if you was me at 15 and I had just done what you just did when I was 15! even half of what you do! I think I would have the Most Red! Sorest, Backside in the whole entire World!! and I really mean that. If Only I could give you my mother for a week!! she would tan your backside rite into shape real quick!.

    I think your a child that is looking for attention a lot of the time at home! and you get second best! am I right! or you feel that way. You have a brother that steels the lime light so to speak! so you act in a way to get your mothers! father’s other relatives attention! by being a naughty girl all the time! and you do not care if that leads to good consequence or bad! am I correct.

    You get angry a lot because often you feel that you are not getting any attention at all! and that you are being left to handle all your own bringing up. I think though you still need to do a lot of growing up! and if negative consequence is what you want I am sure Miss Jessica will continue to help discipline you and by now you must know what having a sore bottom feels like! that is good it does us all only good in the end! no matter how old we all are! and will hold you in good stead in the future.

    I hope for you Hanna that you will be able to turn your negative ways! around for the good of your self and others! as I know deep down somewhere their is a good talented smart Hanna! with potential to go far in life, if she starts being more responsible and takes care to her actions. You first of all need to sort out your issue with your brother! one day when you are both grown up! you will both need one another a lot more than you understand now! if you keep treating him like the way you do now and abusing him the way you are now! he wont be there for you later on when you really need him in years to come when you are all grown up and in your later lives.

    Please Hanna take what I have said on! and make your time on suspension useful! and learn from it! I am sure Miss Jessica will find you some time to spend some of it spanking that backside of yours! and doing some serious corner time! but that up to Miss Jessica! keep with it girl Miss Jessica will show you the way to get control and discipline! If you start concentrating and behaving.

    Kind Regards

    Joel

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  44. Hi miss Jessica, i’m new here i hope that it is still open to confess.. i’m 22.
    I really need a hard punishment… i have not finised my essay and lied and said that i did.. i still have not finished it and nobody knows..
    I have a wooden spoon, a big metal spoon and a spatula..
    please give me a punishment, i deserve it.

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    • Have you finished your essay yet. If not, 120 swats with the metal spoon (put it in the freezer beforehand) and then go stand in the corner for an additional 40 minutes.
      Mistress

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      • I have nor finished it yet so I gave myself the punishment you gave… it hurt really bad and I even added another 40 with a new wooden brush i got, to make sure I really got the message… just so you know, my butt is beaten purple.
        Thank you for punishing me miss Jessica.

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