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Should you suppress your urge to spank yourself?

ou can try to stop thinking about spanking completely, and good luck with that.

When I was an adolescent I vowed to stop thinking about spanking. You can see how well that worked for me, and I’m guessing it didn’t work all that well for you either.

Another common method of suppression is to allow yourself spanking fantasies, but not to tell anyone about them or to do anything. Some people hew to this plan as they date, form relationships, pursue their careers, raise children, and grow old. They spend a lifetime saying nothing and doing nothing about their interest in spanking. But when they make love, they imagine spanking scenes, and it is this fantasy that brings them to climax throughout their lives.


That is not your only option. The possibilities fall along this spectrum:

  • Never thinking about it
  • Thought
  • Thinking about spanking when you’re being sexual
  • Thinking about spanking anytime you like
  • Solitary Action
  • Reading or looking at spanking erotica
  • Reading conversations spanking websites
  • Contacting others
  • Participating in spanking group chats
  • Participating in one-on-one spanking chats
  • Phone calls
  • Meeting
  • Meeting someone else to talk
  • Meeting someone else for spanking
  • Meeting someone else for spanking and other sexual activities
  • Becoming president of your local spanking club

If you’re single you can make your own call on how far down the list to go. If you’re in a relationship with someone who isn’t interested in spanking, things can get complicated.

Suppression works best when the water is low and the dam robust. It will be easy to ignore your spanking desires if your interest in spanking is slight and your sex drive is minimal.

If you’re reading this, neither one of these is true.

Suppression is the default choice for most adolescents, and it makes sense for many adults. You might be in a relationship that could be jeopardized by your interest in spanking. You might have a religious conviction that spanking is immoral. You might fear that disclosing your interest in spanking would cost you your job. These are reasonable concerns. Or you might worry that if you allow yourself to do a little spanking, it will spiral out of control and ruin your life. Fortunately, that is not going to happen.

You might want to preserve a relationship you’re already in.


If you want to integrate accountability in your life, become more goal oriented or just want to spank yourself anyway, you should consider, apart from reading the other articles here, to get the The guide for self spanking. It will teach you the backgrounds of spanking, some things to consider when starting first, and various scenarios in which spanking yourself is necessary. 

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One thought on “Should you suppress your urge to spank yourself?

  1. Yes very true , you can get in trouble with work as i have , asking ladys there to spank me. Of course all said no. Did not want sexual contact or anything but a hard spanking.


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