You live in the realm of the everyday. You go to school or to work, you have friends and family, you read, browse the Internet, cook dinner for friends, or go to the movies. If you have a boyfriend or girlfriend, you do the things people expect you to do, the things your friends do. You hide your interest in spanking. If spanking comes up in conversation, you conceal your arousal and fascination. Spanking is a joke to everyone else, something a little kinky and sexy but nothing more.
Spanking is much more to you, and you think about it all the time. You are different.
How different are you? The internet’s answer is frightening; it suggests that people like you are all perverts who lead twisted lives. This second realm is crowded with BDSM porn. It looks like a repellant place that claims the souls of losers who can’t control themselves.
You may fear that your interest in spanking will lure you toward this darker world represented by online spanking porn, a world composed of depravity generously laced with stupidity. If this were what adult spanking is like, you would better off without it.
Remember the first time you typed “spanking” into a search engine? Did you think God was going to strike you with a thunderbolt the moment you hit “enter”? What actually happened was almost worse if you concluded that there are people like you and they are deeply disturbed.
I just typed “spanking” into a search engine; the results page includes five ads. One of them promises “Real Slaves Real Torture Real Time. Watch female BDSM slaves suffer.” Another offers “Dirty Local Girls – Browse Local Photos and Profiles: 100% Free.” A third sells whips and “electroplay,” whatever that is.
The listed results aren’t much better. One of the items is a news story from CNN: “A study published this month links spanking and other physical punishment with mental health disorders.”
I tried again, using “Adult Spanking” as the search term. The first hit is “My First (as An Adult) Spanking From Dad: A true, personal story from the experience, I Am Still Spanked By Dad.” Fantasies are fine, but a “true, personal” story about being spanked by Dad creeps me out.
A little further down the list we get this: “My wife and I are both 54. We have been having some marital difficulties the last few months. The other night at bed time she wanted me to hit her and spank her. I thought she was joking at first but she became angry when I refused to strike her or spank her with a paddle or belt. I am ‘dumb founded’ we have never done anything like this.”
These searches reveal a wretched brew of incest and insanity. You’ve probably done a search like this and been alarmed by the results. I wouldn’t blame you for concluding that your spanking desires are sick and that if you let them out of their cage, they will become uncontrollable and destroy you. I wouldn’t blame you for concluding that you are alone—that nobody else with spanking desires is normal like you.
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